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Words, are they ever too many?

Thursday, January 30, 2014

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Words, are they ever too many?

Sometimes I feel that by adding words to an already overwritten world, I am feeding the confusion. Over the Internet words multiply, repeat themselves into the infinite, change configurations and get reworded endlessly. Information becomes frustration, as one try to navigate a planet that is drowning in sentences.

Anyone with a mind can transform plain white into characters. The tweeting that once sounded like a bird now resembles a never ending ringing clock, adding unnecessary noise to golden silence. How will my kids access an entire world and still be able to listen to their own hearts pounding?

"Take everything away, but the Internet", future generations will chorus. Maybe we all got hooked to a fast stream of stories. All civilizations treasured stories, told over firelights before sleep, rocked to the sound of moving chairs. Until suddenly we have access to all the stories of an entire world. Hard to fit into a lifetime, let alone before bedtime.

Words tell stories, confirm that the world is not a stagnant ball, but a dynamic knot of happenings, alive. The sound of life is always attracting, enticing. But what if excessive life starts to kill your own? What if the knot of outside happenings stops your own story on its tracks?

Words, are they ever too many?
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What Is True Love?

Monday, January 27, 2014

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I dedicate this song to my boys, that their lives may be filled with true love.

True Love Lyrics

Everywhere people are looking for love, love
Love to fill the emptiness that never fulfills
Different kind of love may do it
But it is never enough
Because true love comes from above

Everywhere people are looking for love, love
Keep your eyes low and love will trick you
Into believing love is a trill, a buzz
Something you can buy with your money, your looks
But it is never going to be enough

It is in the movie screen, in the musical scheme,
The lights, the glitter, the virtual theme
Keep your eyes low and busy
Don't give a second thought to reality
Because love is all we need, right?

Open your eyes wide, look up
Because love cannot be found on the ground
Mixed up with lies and darkness
True love is the size of God
The size of open arms giving up breath
True love is given with blood, with death

Everywhere people are looking for love in the wrong places
Can you believe true love is all about grace?
About ending the endless cycle of approval seeking?
And accepting the gift of forgiveness God is giving?

For I am convinced that neither death nor life,
neither angels nor demons,
neither the present nor the future,
nor any powers, neither height nor depth,
nor anything else in all creation,
will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

True love from God is all we need, have you found it?


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New year resolution: Making time for the things that really matter

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

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 When the new year dawns its enthusiasm upon me, the excitement is contagious but sometimes dangerously short lived. Goals still ring true by the beginning of February except the fuel starts to run low and if not cultivated, the future starts to look a lot like the past, a sequence of fire extinguishing moments that seems to never step back.

A common stress factor that keeps me running around in circles are the many activities grouped inside the term "Household Chores". From the moment the alarm clock rings, or in my case, my boys surround my restful habitat for the night, one after the other the chores line up, or worst pile up, overflowing the next awake hours!

I keep wondering... what if any Fortune 500 company started running its business like my household, how many hours, or minutes, would it take to break? Because the sad reality is that most households have not advanced in efficiency and effectiveness as most of the corporate world has. 

A common thinking thread related to corporate management has to do with the question: "How can I work with efficiency (doing things well with the least amount of waste, expense and unnecessary effort) and effectiveness (producing the desired result)? 


Problem: It is 4:30 PM and I have no idea what to feed my family for dinner. 
Result: Pizza is ordered or chicken nuggets are defrosted or the drive through comes in handy again.

Now imagine if a hospital kitchen was run like that. Or a restaurant. Or a supermarket. Or a school cafeteria. Or anything out there!

So why the disparity? Why do some successful people in the corporate world apply all their management skills at work but as soon they cross the door to their living rooms, the survival mode kicks in? No planning, no efficiency and no effectiveness! How odd is that?

And I keep wondering... How can I produce the desired result with the least amount of waste, expense or unnecessary effort? ... so that I have time and energy for the things that really matter or that I want to pursue?  


During these next days, I would love to suggest, as you go through your activities at home, stop at every single action and think... Is there a better way to produce the desired results with the least amount of your energy, time and money?

I look forward to sharing with you during my next posts the small changes I have learned to implement management skills at home. What about you, any tips to share?




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