Sunday, April 6, 2014

The right reasons for Let it go and be Frozen

My neighbor's daughter introduced my kids to the Frozen movie. At first they had no idea what she was talking about, but as they play together quite often, now I can hear Luke singing to himself "Let it go" more times than I wish to hear!

I read the lyrics and I am not impressed. "Let it go, let it go, Turn my back and slam the door". Is that really what kids should be singing? There is a fake feeling of freedom in letting it go, as if what enslaved us in the first place were the rules, grown ups, and lack of power. As if our inner self would be the answer to freedom, happiness and success.

As children let it go, turn their backs and slam the door, they won't find freedom at all! They will find that their own hearts are broken, and that they don't hold the tools to fix it. It is just a false sense of freedom, while still slaved to never satisfying desires.

"If I could just be in control of my own destiny then things would be fine" is at a first look, a very appealing, confident and positive message. The popular independence from all higher powers, no one telling me what to do. I remember of a very confident man that after Jesus had said "you will all fall away because of Me this night", he replied: "Even thought all may fall away because of You, I will never fall away." Peter was in control of his decisions, he had decided then and there that even if God Himself had said something different, Peter was free to decide how he would write his own destiny.

Jesus tried to warn him "This very night, before a rooster crows, you will deny Me three times." But Peter was not convinced as he said "Even if I have to die with You, I will not deny You." Don't we all want to raise confident kids? The ones that are able to stand up and speak for themselves? I surely do. I hope my boys stand up for what is right even if that costs them something. But there is a difference between being confident in Jesus Christ and being confident in themselves. 

Peter was very confident in himself. However, he finds out a little later that he would in fact deny Jesus three times, not even at risk of death, but just to protect his image in front of regular servants and bypasses. And when the rooster crows, he remembers and he weeps. The pain of learning the hard way that he was in fact slaved by his own desires and that freedom does not come from within.

Let it go of yourself for Jesus, Let it go of yourself for Jesus, the lyrics should say. Don't try to pretend that you are strong enough to take care of yourself, that you are wise enough to know the future, that you are brave enough to win the battles, because you are not! Because I am not! And it is ok. It is ok to need someone stronger, to trust someone wiser, and to receive help from someone braver. It does not make you less, it makes more of you. Because someone so strong, so wise and so brave cares enough about you to offer His hand, His pierced hand, for you to hold on. Because someone so important loves you enough to have Let it go of Himself, when He could have taken the entire world apart. He froze Himself on that cross, so that all of our slavery could be broken. 

"While being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously; and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, so that we might die to sin and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed. For you were continually straying like sheep, but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Guardian of your souls." Guess who wrote this piece? Peter did! He had learned his lesson.

Sometimes you got to freeze yourself too, but for the right reasons. 

"Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." (Psalms 46:10)

Children, Let it go of yourself, Let yourself be loved by the biggest, deepest, highest, largest and longest love of all. He does not want to hurt you, He wants to stop you from hurting yourself. Be frozen, be still and let Him take you in His hands and you won't need to turn your back anymore, or slam that door shut, it is not your fight, it is His. Don't lie to yourself that you were not bothered by the cold. There is warmth in his arms, run into the direction of light, not darkness. 

Let it go and be frozen.

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Words, are they ever too many?

Words, are they ever too many?

Sometimes I feel that by adding words to an already overwritten world, I am feeding the confusion. Over the Internet words multiply, repeat themselves into the infinite, change configurations and get reworded endlessly. Information becomes frustration, as one try to navigate a planet that is drowning in sentences.

Anyone with a mind can transform plain white into characters. The tweeting that once sounded like a bird now resembles a never ending ringing clock, adding unnecessary noise to golden silence. How will my kids access an entire world and still be able to listen to their own hearts pounding?

"Take everything away, but the Internet", future generations will chorus. Maybe we all got hooked to a fast stream of stories. All civilizations treasured stories, told over firelights before sleep, rocked to the sound of moving chairs. Until suddenly we have access to all the stories of an entire world. Hard to fit into a lifetime, let alone before bedtime.

Words tell stories, confirm that the world is not a stagnant ball, but a dynamic knot of happenings, alive. The sound of life is always attracting, enticing. But what if excessive life starts to kill your own? What if the knot of outside happenings stops your own story on its tracks?

Words, are they ever too many?

Monday, January 27, 2014

True Love Lyrics

I dedicate this song to my boys, that their lives may be filled with true love.

True Love Lyrics

Everywhere people are looking for love, love
Love to fill the emptiness that never fulfills
Different kind of love may do it
But it is never enough
Because true love comes from above

Everywhere people are looking for love, love
Keep your eyes low and love will trick you
Into believing love is a trill, a buzz
Something you can buy with your money, your looks
But it is never going to be enough

It is in the movie screen, in the musical scheme,
The lights, the glitter, the virtual theme
Keep your eyes low and busy
Don't give a second thought to reality
Because love is all we need, right?

Open your eyes wide, look up
Because love cannot be found on the ground
Mixed up with lies and darkness
True love is the size of God
The size of open arms giving up breath
True love is given with blood, with death

Everywhere people are looking for love in the wrong places
Can you believe true love is all about grace?
About ending the endless cycle of approval seeking?
And accepting the gift of forgiveness God is giving?

For I am convinced that neither death nor life,
neither angels nor demons,
neither the present nor the future,
nor any powers, neither height nor depth,
nor anything else in all creation,
will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

True love from God is all we need, have you found it?

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

How to do laundry with business efficiency

Let's face it, laundry is an endless job that knocks uninvited at the door every week, and cannot be ignored for too long. The piles have magical power of growth, unaware of the existence of a force called gravity, that seems to have no influence in pulling the clothes down, to at least make the hamper look less crowed than it actually is. 

I decided to win the fight against my pile, even if only in my imagination. How could I do laundry in a efficient and effective way? First, do we really need all that weight of laundry detergent being carried into the cart, out of the cart, into the car, out of the car, into the house, upstairs, downstairs, strengthening muscles in weird directions and sometimes pulling tendons out of their locks?

To my surprise I found that there is an all natural, all light, all simple alternative, that cleans my clothes, does not leave nasty chemicals behind and keeps the environment the way it found it! It is called soap nuts. It is a nature given solution to laundry. If you got the time, you can buy the nuts, soak them in warm water and then use and reuse 5 of them for a few times. Or you can buy the liquid soap made from the nuts and with one pump get a load done. And here is the deal, if you order online on Amazon you can get 96 loads for $19. Just for comparison, on Amazon you will get 64 Tide loads for $15. The container is so small it could fit my jacket pocket. Less packaging, less hassle and the clothes smell clean, nothing else!

What about dryer sheets? Do I really need them? I found out that actually I don't. All I need are three wool dryer balls to fluff the clothes. Buy it once, and never spend another penny again. Efficiency and effectiveness!

What else could I improve? Hampers. I downsized the number of hampers to one set. Everybody can move their feet and bring their clothes to the main hampers, no need for me to walk around the house collecting dirty clothes from many hampers. Job outsourced!

The dryer is beeping, time to collect and fold the mountain sized pile. Baskets can come handy when emptying the machine, but they also function as temporary/permanent homes for clothes that don't belong inside baskets. So I decided to trick myself by eliminating the baskets. I just pull a group of clothes out of the dryer, fold them and place in different piles, depending which room they go, then another group and so on. There is no resting place for the clothes, they need to get folded right away and piled. 

Next step: putting the clothes away. Here the job could be outsourced as well, but in my case with small children I decided to change a few things. All the pants and all the tops are spread on the bed, as I match them in pairs, remembering last week's combinations that will also be next week's combinations! Then the outfits are placed on shelves, so my kids can get to choose their own outfits every morning but they will still always match!

What about you, do you have any secrets to share?

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

New year resolution: Making time for the things that really matter

 When the new year dawns its enthusiasm upon me, the excitement is contagious but sometimes dangerously short lived. Goals still ring true by the beginning of February except the fuel starts to run low and if not cultivated, the future starts to look a lot like the past, a sequence of fire extinguishing moments that seems to never step back.

A common stress factor that keeps me running around in circles are the many activities grouped inside the term "Household Chores". From the moment the alarm clock rings, or in my case, my boys surround my restful habitat for the night, one after the other the chores line up, or worst pile up, overflowing the next awake hours!

I keep wondering... what if any Fortune 500 company started running its business like my household, how many hours, or minutes, would it take to break? Because the sad reality is that most households have not advanced in efficiency and effectiveness as most of the corporate world has. 

A common thinking thread related to corporate management has to do with the question: "How can I work with efficiency (doing things well with the least amount of waste, expense and unnecessary effort) and effectiveness (producing the desired result)? 

Problem: It is 4:30 PM and I have no idea what to feed my family for dinner. 
Result: Pizza is ordered or chicken nuggets are defrosted or the drive through comes in handy again.

Now imagine if a hospital kitchen was run like that. Or a restaurant. Or a supermarket. Or a school cafeteria. Or anything out there!

So why the disparity? Why do some successful people in the corporate world apply all their management skills at work but as soon they cross the door to their living rooms, the survival mode kicks in? No planning, no efficiency and no effectiveness! How odd is that?

And I keep wondering... How can I produce the desired result with the least amount of waste, expense or unnecessary effort? ... so that I have time and energy for the things that really matter or that I want to pursue?  

During these next days, I would love to suggest, as you go through your activities at home, stop at every single action and think... Is there a better way to produce the desired results with the least amount of your energy, time and money?

I look forward to sharing with you during my next posts the small changes I have learned to implement management skills at home. What about you, any tips to share?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Let there be true light!

Photography is about letting light in. Capturing the picture without shadows, the emotions without distractions. Waiting for the sun to explode with the right hues, so that when you hear the click, the light will transform any darkness into beauty.

As a baby brought into light through birth, Earth was brought into birth through light. "Let there be light", echoed the command right in the beginning. There could be no life, beauty or birth without light. Earth had to be bathed with brightness before being shaped into art. 

Light exposed the beauty of creation as a spotlight announcing every new detail included. And it was good, very good. 

That is until darkness sneaked in. Until men chose darkness instead of light, thinking that light was not enough, or not convenient enough. As a result, the photos started to lose their beauty. With each click, a new stain of darkness showed up. It became almost impossible to capture light. 

On a dark night, around 2000 years ago, it was announced with great brightness that Light had come again into the world, this time true Light, the author of Creation. Light which gives light to every man coming into the world. The final solution to the stained pictures. 

Christmas lights brighten the darkness of winter, but only Christ can brighten the darkness of every human heart. 

Let there be true Light in your heart this Christmas.

"I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness but have the light of life." John 8:12

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Religion on the road to Damascus, Syria


My boys love to yell across the house: "Mommy!" repeatedly until I finally give up and come to meet their needs. I have tried to remind them several times that if they want to talk to me, they should move their little feet in my direction instead of yelling the breath out of their lungs. But for laziness reasons they prefer the yelling method because it usually works!

There is something about maternal instinct that allows mothers to recognize the voice and even the cry of their offspring from far away. My heart is always touched when I hear a baby or a child cry, but something deeper goes on when I hear one of my kids cry. That cry pierces my heart, time stops, there is only one thing going on in the entire universe and my motherly heart would pay anything to have access to the cry off button. That cry is not just a sound, it is a person squeezing out their pain through their throats and flooding their eyes with sadness. I know their voice.

"And the sheep follow him, for they know his voice" John 10:4

Saul and Mary

He is on a mission on the road to Damascus, Syria,
She is on a mission hushing to the tomb early,
He sees death as the solution,
She sees death as the tragedy.

He moves forward with anger,
She wishes the past had lasted longer,
He is surrounded by human strength,
She is surrounded by angels,

He suddenly sees a bright light!
She has her vision blurred by tears.

"Saul, Saul", says the voice that scares him,
"Mary", calls the familiar tone,
"Who are you?", Saul asks.
"Rabboni!", Mary rejoices!

He had never heard that voice,
She loved that voice!
He believed in his zealous for God,
She believed in a person.

(poem based in John 20 and Acts 9)

Religion is not personal, Jesus Christ is. 

"My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow Me". John 10:27

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